182 "However mean your life is, "Live it", "Meet it", " Do not curse it "

        However  mean  your life  is  live it, meet it, do not  shun it , do not curse it .

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                Life is  like photography, we use negatives to develop. Struggles make our journey memorable.  

              In the second chapter of Bhagwad Gita,  Krishna  says-

                      मात्रास्पर्शास्तु कौन्तेय शीतोष्णसुखदु:खदा: |

                     आगमापायिनोऽनित्यास्तांस्तितिक्षस्व भारत || 

O son of Kunti, " Distress and Sorrows" are non-permanent. They come and go like the winter and summer seasons. O descendent of Bharat, one must learn to tolerate them without being disturbed. Those who cry instead of facing the situation, they are foolish, 

ignorant, and half-witted. Suffering is a part of life. Without it, human life would not be complete. We are bound to face adversities. How we handle these vicissitudes is determined by our attitude.

 Life is full of wonders. Sometimes we are on a smooth highway to reach our goal, and sometimes we are confronted with major obstacles. Accept the situation as it is. Don't think that acceptance is giving up. It's simply a choice to be present with. Nothing in nature is stagnant. All stages are beautiful. See, in nature, some seasons have their own beauty. They are when fruit trees bear fruits and when green leaves adorn branches. Similarly, there are seasons when they shiver up and flutter to the ground.

                 There are so many personalities whom we regard as kings, who faced many ups and downs, blocks,  adversities, and hurdles in their lives and suffered a lot, but they never gave up and accepted them 

wholeheartedly. The king, Harishchandra lost his wife and his son too, he never cried. Lord Rama lost his throne, He did not cry. He lived more than half of His life in suffering.

                                                 There are so many examples of common people too. Mr. Dhirubhai  Ambani was merely a petrol pump attendant and became the richest man due to his perseverance. The X-Prime Minister Dr. Manmohan  Singh comes from a poor family. He had no convenience of even electricity at home. He studied hard in candlelight and one day, became Prime Minister. Droupadi  Murmu, who was sworn in as the 15th President of India,  needs no introduction. She grew up in a tribal village and came up the hard way from a humble background where even availing basic education was difficult. Despite many obstacles, her determination remained strong and she became the first daughter of her village to go to college. She set an example that a daughter born in a poor house can reach the highest constitutional position.

                 Thus we see that these people had fortitude, a positive attitude, and a willingness to take responsibility. They never despaired even in the bleakest of winters. Hope, wrote, Alexander Pope, lies eternal in the human breast. 

                                                Life is far too precious to fritter away aimlessly. Throw away the accumulated dead matter, the emotional garbage of the past, and the negative energy built over the years. ' No matter how long the winter, spring is sure to follow.'

 Living is the art of getting used to what we didn't expect. 

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Tips to make life easy-

1. Whatever is in your destiny, you'll have to face it. so make yourself comfortable in every situation.

2. Those who do not value u, ignore them.

3. You have your identity and your self-respect. Always keep it maintained. Do not allow your friends or your spouse to spoil it. You are not their slaves.

4. Remember you have everything due to your efforts alone. So care for yourself and your health. Because nobody cares when u are ill, and you are weak.

5. Update yourself.

6. Motivate yourself that " I can earn myself, live myself, can look after myself. 

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